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[Перевод] Исследование кода GTA Vice City
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Published: 2026-07-22 13:01:10 | Created: 2026-07-22 13:02:38

В этой статье мы проанализируем код одной из самых известных в мире игр: Grand Theft Auto Vice City. Это игра, на которой мы выросли. Хотя с момента её выпуска прошло более двадцати лет, код игры по-прежнему нас восхищает. Он не только хорошо работает на CPU с частотой 300 МГц (поскольку изначально его писали для PlayStation 2), но и обеспечивает игровой процесс без экранов загрузки сегментов карты, несмотря на ограничение в 32 МБ ОЗУ.

Здесь стоит упомянуть, что мы будем рассматривать не оригинальный исходный код, написанный Rockstar, а код на C++, полученный реверс-инжинирингом двоичных файлов игры. Мы поговорим о специфике эпохи PS2, почему игра почти никогда не распределяет память, о том, что весь город состоит из 25 пешеходов и 12 машин, обсудим работу физики и распознавание коллизий. В игре даже есть используемая для трюков система реплеев, которой для записи всех движущихся вокруг игрока объектов хватает одного мегабайта памяти.

Кроме того, Rockstar реализовала точно ту же механику работы с данными, что и в современных ECS-движках: целое число, в котором упакованы индекс слота и счётчик поколений, благодаря чему устаревшая ссылка ни на что не указывает.

В конце мы поговорим о знаменитых читах игры и о том, как она боролась с пиратством, ломая снайперскую винтовку, создавая ураган или даже повреждая данные сохранений.

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Ответственность, которую у нас украли: манипуляции в бизнесе, ловушка результата и при чём здесь Трудные Диалоги
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Published: 2026-07-22 13:01:32 | Created: 2026-07-22 13:02:38

«Отвечаешь за результат» — это фраза, которую используют, чтобы управлять нами через чувство вины. Нас оценивают по показателям, которые зависят от десятков факторов вне вашего контроля. Нас мотивируют «ответственностью перед командой», чтобы мы брали на себя дополнительную работу, работали по выходным и молчали о проблемах. А когда результат не достигается, мы чувствуем себя виноватым, хотя объективно не могли повлиять на половину обстоятельств.

В этой статье я разбираю, как манипуляция ответственностью превращает нас в выученного беспомощного, и что делать, чтобы перестать быть должником и стать автором своей карьеры.

Поделюсь своими мыслями о том:

- Почему требовать ответственности за результат — это психологическая ловушка, а не управленческая мудрость.
- Чем «отвечать перед командой» отличается от добровольного выбора действовать в интересах общего дела, и почему первое ведёт к выгоранию, а второе — к устойчивой мотивации.
- Есть ли способ не молчать и не взрываться, когда мы не согласны, и как он связан с принятием ответственности.
- Как Разумные Истории, которые мы рассказываем себе о других, искажают реальность и лишают нас ответственности.
- Почему создание безопасности для собеседника — это не слабость, а самый сильный акт ответственности и эффективный способ управления процессом.

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Passenger who says he was nearly sucked out of broken Ryanair window during flight speaks out
Published: 2026-07-22 12:54:16 | Created: 2026-07-22 13:00:37
A passenger on a Ryanair flight who says he was nearly sucked out of a shattered window is speaking out for the first time about the incident. However, the airline's CEO is disputing part of the man's story. Tom Hanson reports.
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WhatsApp adds Apple CarPlay and Android Auto upgrades, iPad sign-ups, and more
Published: 2026-07-22 13:00:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 13:00:37
WhatsApp on Apple CarPlay and Android Auto will let users hear and reply to messages, make calls, view their call history, and access favorite contacts hands-free and right from their car's screen.
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Passionfroot raises $15M to expand its B2B creator marketplace to the US
Published: 2026-07-22 13:00:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 13:00:37
Passionfroot, a German startup building a marketplace connecting B2B creators with brands, has raised $15M in a Series A round led by Insight Partners.
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Социальная инженерия. Диагностика команд. Часть 2. Культурная перспектива. Метафоры «Машина», «Организация»
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:58:04 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:59:38

Культурная перспектива — это подход к изучению и пониманию организации, который объясняет ее идентичность, как носителя уникальной системы разделяемых смыслов, ценностей и убеждений, что, в свою очередь, оказывает значительное влияние на поведение аффилированных с ней людей. В организационной теории сложилось несколько объяснительных парадигм, которые по-разному трактуют, что есть организационная культура и как ее необходимо изучать. Одну из них мы рассмотрели в первой части. Еще одна — Интерпретативная, пришедшая из культурной антропологии, предлагает рассматривать Культуру не как ресурс, а как коренную метафору. В этой парадигме все смысловые конструкции переворачиваются с ног на голову: Организация не обладает культурой — она и есть сама культура.

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Putellas, Batlle and León are gone: what will be left of Barcelona after latest exodus?
Published: 2026-07-22 12:07:51 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:59:38

The European champions’ squad is falling apart … because of the men’s team’s struggles with financial fair play

The joy of lifting all four trophies in 2025-26 has been short-lived for Barcelona’s women’s team as they face a second consecutive summer exodus.

If winning the Champions League is not enough to retain players then you have to wonder what is. Seven players have left the European champions so far with 19-year-old Renee van Asten from Ajax the only arrival.

This is an extract from our free email about women’s football, Moving the Goalposts. To get the full edition, visit this page and follow the instructions. Moving the Goalposts will be sent out once a week, on Wednesdays, in the close season but will be back on Tuesdays and Thursdays from September.

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Scarratt joins England coaching team permanently
Published: 2026-07-22 12:55:44 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:59:37
England's record points-scorer Emily Scarratt commits her long-term future to the Red Roses coaching team.
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Mass mid-air brawl forces easyJet plane to return to Tenerife
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Published: 2026-07-22 11:52:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:58:37
A mid-air brawl involving around 10 passengers forced a Liverpool-bound easyJet plane to return to Tenerife.
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RFK Jr. says cyclosporiasis outbreak "under control" as CDC reports over 4,000 confirmed cases
Published: 2026-07-22 12:46:39 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:55:37
HHS Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. said Tuesday the cyclosporiasis outbreak is "under control" and claimed last year's federal budget cuts had no impact on the investigation. The CDC is now reporting more than 4,000 confirmed cases in 41 states. Carter Evans reports.
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France passes law banning some social media apps for kids under 15
Published: 2026-07-22 12:50:27 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:55:37
France has become the latest country to crack down on social media usage for children, passing a new law to ban some apps for kids under 15 years old. Jo Ling Kent reports.
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The World's Top EdTech Companies of 2026
Published: 2026-07-22 12:47:52 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:54:38

Literacy rates have steadily risen around the world over the last decade, according to a 2025 UNESCO report—important progress on a key UN Sustainable Development Goal, as the ability to read, write, and use numbers is “crucial for thinking critically and navigating information-rich society and economy in a safe, effective and responsible manner.” Access to digital learning has largely been associated with higher test scores for students globally. As technology continues to advance, tech companies have pounced upon the opportunity to bring education systems around the world up to speed with the ever-more connected digital world and the proliferation of new tools like generative AI. 

To assess the top EdTech companies in the world, TIME partnered with Statista on a data-based research project evaluating the thousands of companies in the space on strong financial performance and industry impact. The end result is a list of the 500 top-performing companies in education technology.

Methodology: How TIME and Statista Determined the World's Top EdTech Companies of 2026

The top ranked company on the list is Duolingo, which was also the top-ranked EdTech company in the U.S. this year. The company, which started as a language learning app, has expanded into math, chess, and music. Duolingo now has over 60 million daily active users and generated more than $1 billion in bookings last year. As UNESCO advocates for more multilingualism, which can offer social, cognitive, and economic benefits, Duolingo’s chief product officer, Cem Kansu, believes that there are still more language learners the app has yet to reach. Roughly 15% of Duolingo’s users are in the U.S., with the majority distributed globally and Asia as one of their fastest growing regions recently. “Asia for English learning especially is a huge market,” Kansu says. Around half of Duolingo’s users are under 25, and use the app as an educational supplement—a lesser known product called Duolingo For Classrooms is designed specifically for teachers to assign Duolingo lessons as homework for students. 

Duolingo stands out among other language learning tools with engaging designs that motivate users to return and practice every day (more than 20 million users have a streak longer than one year); micro-lessons that use implicit learning rather than drilling grammar rules; and keeping its free tier to bring in new users.

“It is extremely important that we provide a very extensive free user experience because Duolingo was built around the idea of providing access to education,” says Kansu. “If someone that had to immigrate from Syria to Turkey had to learn Turkish to integrate, we want to provide access to them. On top of that, an excellent free product provides an amazing growth flywheel for Duolingo.” 

Word of mouth has certainly made Duolingo mainstream, but the company broke through the noise through its unconventional marketing tactics and its capitalization on cultural moments like the World Cup (daily learners studying Norwegian on Duolingo were up nearly 19% globally and 24% in the U.S. compared with the previous month), shows like Squid Game (Season 1 of Squid Game drove a 40% increase in new U.S. Korean learners on Duolingo immediately after its premiere), and Bad Bunny performing in the Super Bowl halftime show (engagement with Spanish jumped 35% the week after). 

While platforms like Duolingo are driving interest in learning and lowering the barrier for entry globally, in the U.S., where there appears to be a “learning recession” as standardized scores for math and reading drop, there are rising concerns about the use of technology in classrooms and too much screen time for children.

Emily Weinstein, a researcher at the Center for Digital Thriving at Harvard, says some students are using up to seven different apps to manage everything from grades to sports team schedules. Kids have reported feeling constantly tethered to these tools to monitor the “endless stream of notifications about what they're supposed to know and do,” which can add to the academic pressures they’re already experiencing, Weinstein says. Educators have also told her that these tools often arrive without the necessary onboarding. 

“Whenever you're thinking about technology in education, you should really think about it like a three-legged stool. You have the actual technology, you have the person using it, and then you have the place where they're using it,” says Stephen AguiIar, an associate professor at the USC Rossier School of Education. “In an ideal world, the technology works, the person knows how to use it, and it's used in the place where it's helpful or where it actually makes a difference. 

I think a lot of the backlash is about poor fit, where you have AI or EdTech companies entering a space they frankly know very little about, and then you have backlash from people who see things just not working. And what's a little unfortunate is that it doesn't always have anything to do with the core technology.”

A central problem is that educational institutions in the U.S. have been underfunded for decades, which creates strains in the system. “Whenever you put a system in strain, one of the things that happens is administrators rightly look for ways to cut costs and to become more efficient, even though education isn't an efficient enterprise,” says Aguilar. “Education is not this thing where you drop off your kids, they sit there for a little bit, knowledge gets poured into them, and then they come out a little smarter. That's the business way of looking at it, and it is fundamentally incorrect. Companies that do a little bit of a better job, they're really thinking about what teachers need to execute their work better.”

As some AI tools fuel the proliferation of digital cheating, there's a reckoning that's happening among educators about how they’re evaluating and assessing learning through traditional assignments, papers and homework, as well as how they’re teaching, experts say. Some leading EdTech platforms like Canvas-owner Instructure (no. 45) and Inspera (no. 31) have rolled out tools to deter AI cheating, including resources to help instructors understand the culture around cheating and how to change their focus from catching students cheating to creating an environment that encourages academic integrity. 

“The systemic issue is we don't have a sense of trust and integrity around the work, then we're trying to layer on EdTech as a solution, and kids are finding ways around it because they're missing the core thing that is going to give them pride in the work,” says Weinstein. “One of the things that we collectively need is to use this AI moment to have conversations in our classroom and school communities about what the purpose of learning is.”

From her research, Weinstein has found that listening more to student perspectives could fundamentally change how we understand what it looks and feels like to be a student in this context, and how these different technologies are shaping learning trajectories. “When you're talking to a young person, you can suddenly see that their good intentions are not always enough in a context where the market forces and design features are pulling them this way and that,” she says. “When I sit down with a kid and look at their ChatGPT logs, I can see such a difference in when they have turned to an EdTech tool for learning and when they have turned to it for a grade.”

Duolingo’s Kansu says that even though Duolingo For Schools’ dashboard for teachers had fairly good adoption, designing products for schools is not easy. “What we're realizing is if we just continue teaching better, Duolingo will become a great complement to classrooms anyway,” he says. “I'm hoping that Duolingo is always put in a bucket of good screen time…Meaning, any minute you spend on Duolingo, you are doing something good for yourself. Any fun minute you spend is also of extremely high learning value.”

Rising Stars

This sub-ranking highlights companies 10 years or younger with the highest revenue growth rates over the past three years out of those who submitted company data via the online application process.

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How TIME and Statista Determined the World's Top EdTech Companies of 2026
Published: 2026-07-22 12:48:01 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:54:38
—Illustration by TIME; Mst Innaka Akter/Getty Images

TIME has published the third annual "World’s Top EdTech Companies 2026" ranking, in partnership with Statista, a leading international provider of market and consumer data and rankings. The result of this quantitative study: 500 companies dedicated to the development and provision of educational technologies, encompassing both products and services. Here's how the winners were selected.

Methodology

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The research project "World's Top EdTech Companies 2026" is a comprehensive analysis conducted to identify the top performing EdTech companies in the world. First, companies had to primarily focus on developing and providing educational technologies, products or services. The 500 companies with the highest score were awarded as "World's Top EdTech Companies 2026"

The ranking is built on two pillars: financial strength and industry impact. Statista gathered and scrutinized data from around 6,500 companies through desk research, online application forms and collaborations with other data and market intelligence companies. A company received scores in each of these dimensions, which were then combined into an overall score.

For the first dimension, financial strength, Statista analyzed revenue, funding, and market capitalization data, obtained from publicly available sources like annual reports, company websites, through media monitoring, and via databases. Additionally, company disclosures submitted via an online application form, which was freely accessible via the TIME website, were considered.

For the evaluation of the industry impact, Statista cooperated with The Upright Project and LexisNexis® Intellectual Property Solutions to assess companies in different impact dimensions, encompassing factors such as:

  • holistic impact of a company’s product and service portfolio, including its alignment with the UN Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) and
  • quantity and value of a company’s IP (intellectual property) portfolio.

In addition, Statista researched various metrics around web traffic, to assess the relevance of the products and services to the respective target groups.

The evaluation process involved assessing all relevant companies within the global EdTech sector that exhibited above-average performance on financial metrics in their geographical region. Subsequently, the selection was narrowed down to include only those companies that not only excelled financially but also demonstrated significant industry impact within their specific categories. This selection process allowed us to establish our final ranking of the World's Top EdTech Companies 2026. Once the data was collected and evaluated, it was consolidated and weighted within a scoring model. The final score was calculated as follows: 70% x financial strength score + 30% x impact score. The companies with the highest score were awarded as "World's Top EdTech Companies 2026" by TIME and Statista.

Rising Stars

Alongside the list of 500 top EdTech companies, Statista and TIME are also publishing a “Rising Stars” ranking highlighting the companies with the highest revenue growth rates over the past three years out of those who submitted company data via the online application process. 

Applied criteria:

  • company age 10 years and younger
  • minimum revenue of 1 million US Dollars in 2024 
  • revenue growth rate of more than 20 % over the last three years

Disclaimer: The selection of the companies and the definition of the evaluation criteria were based on independent journalistic criteria of TIME and Statista. The evaluation was carried out by the statistics and market research company Statista. TIME and Statista make no claim to the completeness of the companies examined. The ranking only includes companies that qualify according to the criteria described in this document. A position in the ranking is a positive recognition based on research of publicly available data sources at the time and information received via an application process and through collaboration partners. In addition, events after June 4th, 2026, were not considered in the analysis. As such, the results of this list should not be used as the sole source of information for future deliberations. The information provided through this ranking should rather be considered in conjunction with other available information about a company. The quality of companies that are not included in the ranking is not disputed.

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Ex-Southern Water boss among four charged over alleged plan to manipulate water quality tests
Published: 2026-07-22 16:07:15 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:53:37
Matthew Wright is accused alongside three others of trying to save the firm millions in penalties.
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Koda Desktop – больше возможностей и не только для разработчика
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:46:38 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:48:38

Про AI-агентов для кода обычно рассказывают одну и ту же историю: разработчик открывает терминал, пишет промпт – агент правит файлы. Koda Desktop начинался ровно с этого, но по дороге выяснилось: окно с агентом, проектами и понятными действиями нужно куда большему числу людей, чем терминал.

Сегодня представляем Koda Desktop [beta] –  настольное приложение, в котором можно открыть локальный проект, говорить с агентом обычным языком, прикладывать документы и скриншоты, безопасно принимать изменения и работать с Git – в одном окне.

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U.S. deal with Saudi Arabia could allow them to enrich uranium
Published: 2026-07-22 12:37:25 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:46:37
There are reports of a U.S. nuclear deal with Saudi Arabia that could allow the country to enrich uranium. Experts say that may put it on a path toward potentially developing a nuclear weapon. Nancy Cordes and CBS News national security analyst Aaron MacLean have more.
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British woman jailed in Hong Kong for blackmail after accusing banker of rape
Published: 2026-07-22 12:28:15 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:44:38

Isabel Rose, 26, sentenced to six years for blackmail and perverting course of public justice over her allegations against British man

A British woman who reported being raped to police in Hong Kong has been sentenced to six years in prison for blackmail and perverting the course of public justice.

Isabel Rose, 26, from south-east London, travelled to Hong Kong in early 2024 to visit a British banker she had met while travelling in south-east Asia.

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ALP announces sweeping changes to student work placements as Gaza war looms large at party conference
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:30:14 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:43:37

Anthony Albanese will cast ‘practical’ policies as the key to countering the anxiety and frustration in Australia

Students in 10 fields including physiotherapy, speech pathology and clinical psychology will receive financial assistance to complete mandatory placements under a major expansion of the federal government’s paid work experience program.

The prime minister, Anthony Albanese, will make the announcement in a speech to open the Labor national conference on Thursday, which will cast “practical” policies as the key to combating the anxiety and frustration gripping the electorate.

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British woman jailed in Hong Kong for blackmail after accusing banker of rape
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:28:15 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:43:37

Isabel Rose, 26, sentenced to six years for blackmail and perverting course of public justice over her allegations against British man

A British woman who reported being raped to police in Hong Kong has been sentenced to six years in prison for blackmail and perverting the course of public justice.

Isabel Rose, 26, from south-east London, travelled to Hong Kong in early 2024 to visit a British banker she had met while travelling in south-east Asia.

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Gas prices are nearly $1 higher compared to a year ago amid Iran war
Published: 2026-07-22 12:40:17 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:43:37
The national average for a gallon of gas is just over $4, which is up about 17 cents from only a week ago and 91 cents higher compared to this time last year, according to AAA. It comes as tensions escalate between the U.S. and Iran. Cristian Benavides reports.
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WATCH: Race to rescue beluga whales from defunct Canadian marine park
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Published: 2026-07-22 15:50:52 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:39:37
Marine experts are relocating nearly three dozen beluga whales from a shuttered Canadian marine park in an enormous undertaking expected to last weeks.
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Первый опыт малоресурсного перевода: Data dojo 2026
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:38:07 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:38:38

Месяц назад закончилась тренировка DATA DOJO от Яндекса. Здесь я бы хотел рассказать про ключевые аспекты соревнования, моё решение на топ-6%, авторские идеи и, конечно, про реальный путь к победе.

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Избавьтесь от Excel-монстра: 4 этапа цифровизации финансов, которые спасут ваш бюджет
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:38:26 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:38:38

Привет, Хабр! Автор этой статьи — Александр, аналитик Directum Projects, и у него для вас провокационный вопрос: «Кто не любит деньги?». Пока вы думаете об ответе, дадим свою версию. Это руководитель проекта.

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Epstein survivors again urge senators not to confirm Todd Blanche as attorney general
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Published: 2026-07-21 19:40:16 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:38:37
Two dozen survivors of Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell's alleged abuse are again urging GOP Sens. Tillis and Cornyn to vote against confirming Todd Blanche as AG.
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Track Tropical Storm Bertha's path through the Gulf
Published: 2026-07-22 12:29:41 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:36:37
CBS News meteorologist Rob Marciano has the latest on Tropical Storm Bertha's projected path as the storm travels through the Gulf of Mexico.
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Интерактивный CLI-менеджер процессов MySQL на асинхронном Python
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:34:40 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:35:38

При разработке проектов на небольших VPS часто возникает ситуация, когда процесс mysqld загружает процессор на 100%. Обычно в такие моменты приходится заходить по SSH, открывать консоль бд и вручную вводить SHOW FULL PROCESSLIST;, чтобы найти тяжелый запрос и завершить его через KILL. Если запросов много, делать это вручную через стандартный вывод не всегда удобно.

Это легковесный интерактивный CLI - менеджер процессов, который работает на базе асинхронного драйвера aiomysql. Он опрашивает системную таблицу information_schema.processlist и выводит текущую активность в терминал в виде таблицы, позволяя управлять потоками СУБД.

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He’s the Last Great Land Artist You’ve Never Heard Of
Published: 2026-07-22 17:05:40 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:31:37
Charles Ross spent 50 years building “Star Axis,” a naked-eye observatory in New Mexico. Now his masterwork is ready. How to share it with a changed world?
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Архитектурные изыски моего solidity pet-проекта, который принес $100k+ до релиза
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:29:02 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:30:38

2021й. Очередная смена компании. Взглянув на рынок, решил перейти из фулстек дотнета + джс в крипто-разработчики. Соответственно, нужен был проект "в портфолио", чтобы заинтересовать эйчаров и технарей. Было таких несколько:

a. Raffle - лотерея с некоторыми ограничениями (подсказали эйчары). Как тестовое - неплоха: задачка простая, сразу понятная, при этом по коду уже можно оценить архитектурные навыки: тут тебе и прокси, и интерфейсы, и подключение к сторонней системе, и отложенные транзакции (запрос случайного числа), и оптимизация хранилища. На тот момент такого вполне хватало, чтобы зацепить работодателей.

б. On-chain NFT - собственно, NFT, которые хранятся и, соответственно, "отрисовываются" полностью on-chain, т.е никаких ipfs и сторонних серверов не требуется, а следовательно коллекция будет жить вечно (пока майнеры майнят). Для этого картинка должна быть svg, который в коде переводишь в base64, как и json аттрибуты, согласно спецификации OpenSea.

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в. Мой Пет, он же Shept - chrome(-ium) browser(s) extension, в котором можно оставлять комменты ко всему, что имеет URL (например, к этой статье, или к моему гитхабу, или к инсте твоей бывшей). А так же можно и заработать на этом, если ты - первый, кто написал "ххй" на странице: с будущих активностей на странице ты будешь иметь процент. Комментарии физически нельзя стереть, удалить, заменить, и даже если остановить смарты и затереть внутренние связи, комментарии все равно можно будет прочитать, зная адрес смарта и интерфейс события, в котором хранятся данные. Это вкратце, подробнее есть в whitepaper, а ниже - параграф про $100k+ и прикольные оптимизации Solidity.

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Уехавших россиян, преследуемых в России, лишат консульских услуг и права распоряжаться имуществом. Какие еще вводятся запреты?
Published: 2026-07-22 12:27:40 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:30:37
Госдума приняла сразу во втором и третьем, окончательном, чтении законы об ограничительных мерах против уехавших россиян, преследуемых на родине. Они будут касаться тех, кто находится за границей и «уклоняется» от наказания по любой статье Уголовного кодекса или игнорирует административные штрафы по ряду политических статей.
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The bitter lesson of climate change
Published: 2026-07-22 12:30:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:30:37
Wildfire smoke over New York City.
The skyline of Lower Manhattan is reflected on the top of a monument as wildfire smoke from Canada shrouds the sunrise in New York City on July 18, 2026, as seen from Jersey City, New Jersey. | Gary Hershorn/Getty Images

In 2019, the AI researcher Rich Sutton published a short essay called “The Bitter Lesson.” Seventy years of AI research, he argued, kept demonstrating the same thing: The most effective ways to train AI rely on raw, brute-force computing power — simply scaling up — rather than clever approaches built on human insight. It didn’t matter how elegant the researchers’ work was. More compute would win every time. It’s a bitter lesson because, well, no one wants to accept that even the best efforts can go unrewarded.

This summer, climate change has been teaching its own kind of bitter lesson. Last week smoke from out-of-control Canadian wildfires reached more than 120 million Americans, sending out air quality alerts across 18-plus states from Minnesota to Virginia. Those wildfires, which were made more likely by the effects of climate change, followed record-breaking heat waves in Europe that contributed to the deaths of thousands of people.

Disasters like these inevitably renew calls for climate action, but no current US emissions policy, no amount of carbon cutting now, could clear the air, just as nothing Europe has done on climate — and it has done more than any other region, at no small cost — could protect it from those killer temperatures. Not this summer, not this decade, not the one after. The steps countries take now to reduce carbon emissions, to mitigate climate change, will not protect them from the present-day effects of climate change.

That’s the bitter lesson of climate change, and 2026 is the summer it has become unignorable. The dangerous effects we’ve been warned about are here, locked in on every timescale that matters to the people living through them. We can’t prevent the worst from happening right now, so we need to figure out how we’re going to adapt to it. 

The smoke we can’t stop

Canadian wildfire smoke is as close to an unstoppable disaster as exists today. The fires are Canada’s, the ignition is mostly lightning, the fuel is a subcontinent of boreal forest no fire agency can manage, and the whole system sits outside US jurisdiction. While strategies like prescribed burning and forest thinning can help reduce the wildfires that crop up in the western US, the sheer scale of Canadian forests makes such management far more difficult, maybe impossible. There is no timescale on which American mitigation clears American air of Canadian wildfire smoke. 

What this means is that for this wildfire smoke, at this moment, adaptation may be all there is.

American law has already conceded the point. Under the Clean Air Act’s Exceptional Events Rule, a state can petition the Environmental Protection Agency to strike wildfire-smoke days from the record used to judge whether its air is legally clean. In other words, the official response to one of the country’s fastest-growing air-quality threats is to delete it from the ledger. 

It’s true that climate attribution science ties heat waves to warming with the highest confidence of any extreme, while wildfire is messier — a compound event filtered through ignition, fuel, and fire weather. But fire seasons are lengthening, fuels are drying, and the most extreme wildfire events on Earth more than doubled between 2003 and 2023. The pattern is intensifying fire in particular regions — the boreal north among them — and the smoke goes where the wind says.

And that smoke is worse than it looks. Wildfire PM2.5 — the microscopic particles that are particularly dangerous —  is roughly three to four times more toxic to the lungs, per unit of mass, than ordinary urban particulate matter. During major smoke events, pediatric asthma visits can spike by more than 30 percent, and Harvard researchers have found the cardiorespiratory damage persists for months after the sky turns blue again. That’s especially dangerous for vulnerable populations like babies and pregnant women.

We can’t affect the winds, we struggle to stop the fires, and any current attempt to reduce warming enough to make those infernos less likely won’t be felt for years. But that doesn’t mean we’re helpless to protect ourselves from wildfire smoke, any more than we are from extreme heat.

We can purify indoor air, and it costs less than you probably think. Strap four furnace filters to a box fan — creating a Corsi-Rosenthal box — and indoor PM2.5 drops by roughly half; in testing during actual wildfire smoke, a DIY unit cut fine particles by about 56 percent in a large room and close to 99 percent in a small sealed one.

For heat, the toolkit is even better known — and one of the best proofs it works is in, of all places, France. The historic 2003 heat wave killed some 15,000 people there, most of them elderly and alone. The national heat plan built in its aftermath — tiered alerts, registries of vulnerable residents, check-in calls, cool rooms — cut the death toll of comparable heat waves by roughly 90 percent: When France hit its all-time record of 114.8°F in 2019, fewer than 1,500 died, per the Christian Science Monitor. A recent European analysis estimates a rerun of 2003 would now kill 77 percent fewer people in France than in a world that never adapted.

So technologies exist to protect ourselves. What’s too often missing are the standards, money, and the drive to deploy protection before the disaster arrives instead of after.

Catching up to today

When it comes to wildfire smoke, some governments are ahead of the game — and some aren’t. Washington state, Oregon, and California now regulate outdoor workers’ smoke exposure by air-quality index, under rules like Cal/OSHA’s wildfire-smoke standard; California funds “clean air centers” with upgraded filtration where people can shelter on bad-air days; Colorado’s Clean Air for Schools program ships free HEPA units to K-12 classrooms. A purifier humming in a classroom is essentially doing for smoke what a cooling center does for heat.

When it comes to heat, some parts of Europe are catching up. Barcelona now runs a network of nearly 400 “climate shelters” — libraries, museums, retrofitted schoolyards — with the goal of putting one within a 10-minute walk of every resident. For the first time, the city is keeping libraries open through August to do it, which, as anyone who has visited Europe in the late summer knows, is no small thing.

So adaptation exists, and it is saving lives. But this summer has also shown what happens when cities, states, and countries aren’t ready. 

In the US, the Midwestern and Northeastern states that spent last week under smoke alerts have almost none of the protections against wildfire smoke that have become more common in Western states, and no one is required to build them, because the country has no enforceable national indoor air-quality standard at all. In Europe, national heat plans are still reluctant to reach for the most powerful tool on the shelf. About one European household in five has air conditioning, compared to nearly nine in ten in the US, in large part because much of the continent still treats the machine as a moral defect

In both cases, rich regions that have largely taken climate mitigation more seriously than some of their neighbors aren’t pursuing adaptations they need. Which really means not taking climate change as seriously as they should. 

Accepting the bitter lesson

For a generation, adaptation was the word climate advocates were often reluctant to say out loud. In his 1992 book Earth in the Balance, Al Gore called adaptation “a kind of laziness, an arrogant faith in our ability to react in time to save our skins.” (He later changed his mind.) And in fairness, “we’ll just adapt” has often been a delaying tactic, an easy out for polluters. 

But the ground has shifted under that caution, because the projections did exactly what projections are supposed to do: they came true. 

Longer fire seasons, deadlier heat waves, smoke reaching places that never used to see it — this summer is the confirmation. And that changes what seriousness requires. If you’ve spent decades warning people that the effects of climate change are coming, you can’t treat readying for those effects as a distraction from the real work. None of this argues for easing up on emissions — each ton that isn’t emitted is adaptation nobody has to build. But preparing for what you predicted is what believing your own prediction looks like.

For AI researchers, Rich Sutton’s lesson was bitter for a specific reason. Those who resisted its conclusion weren’t foolish; they resisted it because it seemed to undercut all their hard work. They resisted it because it didn’t seem fair, just as it’s not fair that countries and states that have in many ways done much to mitigate climate change find themselves just as vulnerable, if not more so, than peers that have done comparatively little. 

But here’s the other half of Sutton’s lesson: The researchers who accepted it won. They stopped defending their cleverness and built what worked. That option is open to climate politics too. The atmosphere isn’t fair, but it is consistent, and it will deliver next summer’s version of this one on schedule. We can be ready. The bitter lesson is only bitter until you have the will to act on it. 

A version of this story originally appeared in the Future Perfect newsletter. Sign up here!

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Jessica Morgan named new Tate director – with ‘big pay cut’ to take job
Published: 2026-07-22 12:11:31 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:29:38

Clear frontrunner leaves lucrative role at New York’s Dia Art Foundation to join UK arts organisation at critical juncture

Jessica Morgan has been confirmed as the new director of Tate, marking her return to the arts organisation where she worked as a curator for more than a decade, at a critical juncture in its history.

Morgan, the clear frontrunner in the race to replace Maria Balshaw, who left this spring after nine years in charge, is currently based in New York, where she has led the Dia Art Foundation since 2015.

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A tournament that crossed borders: crunching the numbers on the diaspora World Cup
Published: 2026-07-22 12:12:17 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:29:38

Nationality in football has never been so complex and the influence of players from the diaspora has never been higher at a World Cup

“Nationality says where you come from. And I actually come from four countries: France, Algeria, Nigeria and Great Britain. I consider myself very lucky to possess these four parts, which all enrich me.” This view was given by Michael Olise. He set up seven goals at the World Cup, breaking Pelé’s record for the most assists at a single edition of the tournament. And he did so for France, one of four countries he was eligible to represent, but not the one in which he was born.

The influence of players from the diaspora has never been higher at the World Cup. Four years ago, 16.5% of the players at the tournament were born in different nations from those for whom they played. That represented a 5.1% increase on 2018 and was the previous high for the tournament. No longer. Almost a quarter (23.6%) of the 1,248 players named in squads this year were selected by countries other than their birthplace. This proportion remained broadly consistent for the contribution these players made towards the minutes played, assists provided and goals scored. In a 48-team, 104-match tournament, these are big numbers.

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Elon Musk says Grok Imagine will make ‘historically accurate’ AI adaptation of Homer’s Odyssey
Published: 2026-07-22 12:11:47 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:29:37

The billionaire says the AI-generated film will stay true to Homer’s original, after repeatedly criticising Christopher Nolan’s blockbuster over its casting choices

Elon Musk has said his AI platform Grok Imagine will make a “historically accurate” adaptation of Homer’s Odyssey, after the success of Christopher Nolan’s blockbusting treatment which the SpaceX founder has regularly criticised over its casting.

In a post on X, Musk said: “Before this year ends, Grok Imagine will make a full-length movie of The Odyssey that is historically accurate and true to the art of Homer.” Musk also linked to a post containing a three-minute clip of footage that the user said had been generated from Grok Imagine, showing a scene between Odysseus and the nymph Calypso.

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Jessica Morgan named new Tate director – with ‘big pay cut‘ to take job
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:11:31 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:28:38

Clear frontrunner leaves lucrative role at New York’s Dia Art Foundation to join UK arts organisation at critical juncture

Jessica Morgan has been confirmed as the new director of Tate, marking her return to the arts organisation where she worked as a curator for more than a decade, at a critical juncture in its history.

Morgan, the clear frontrunner in the race to replace Maria Balshaw, who left this spring after nine years in charge, is currently based in New York, where she has led the Dia Art Foundation since 2015.

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Eye Opener: Severe weather across U.S. as Gulf states prepare for Tropical Storm Bertha
Published: 2026-07-22 12:21:51 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:28:37
Powerful storms wreak havoc across the country as the Gulf states brace for Tropical Storm Bertha. Plus, details on a potential new nuclear deal with Saudi Arabia. All that and all that matters in today's Eye Opener.
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Arizona Democrats reject party leaders’ pick for a key battleground district
Published: 2026-07-22 12:20:38 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:26:37
Democrat Amish Shah, a physician and former state lawmaker, has opened a lead in the primary for a key Arizona battleground district even though party leaders backed another candidate.
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Michelin-starred restaurateur faces jail for using ants as dessert garnish
Published: 2026-07-22 03:32:56 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:22:37
Officials say the restaurant in South Korea used some 49,000 ants in various dishes over four years.
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Foden signs new four-year Man City contract
Published: 2026-07-22 12:17:51 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:21:37
Manchester City midfielder Phil Foden signs a new four-year contract with the club, extending his stay until 2030.
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Nottingham attacks NHS trust faces manslaughter investigation
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Published: 2026-07-22 11:17:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:16:37
The mother of one of the Nottingham attack victims has welcomed a corporate manslaughter investigation into the mental healthcare trust that treated triple killer Valdo Calocane, calling it the "beginning of the reckoning".
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RFK Jr. Says Cyclosporiasis Outbreak is ‘Under Control’
Published: 2026-07-22 11:32:18 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:15:37
Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. says the major stomach bug potentially linked to tainted lettuce is “under control.” His comments come amid thousands of cases across multiple states. The FDA has linked the cyclosporiasis outbreak to shredded iceberg lettuce from a Taylor Farms facility but other sources are still being investigated.
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How to turn beetroot leaves into a classic south Indian vegetable dish – recipe | Waste not
Published: 2026-07-22 12:00:14 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:14:38

Simple spices, fresh coconut and a handful of lentils or nuts is enough to transform leaves normally destined for the compost

Poriyal is south India’s version of sauteed spiced vegetables, and it can be made with just about any vegetable, though green beans or a leafy green such as spinach, moringa or amaranth are most commonly used. The vegetables are fried with onions and spices, a spoon of urad dal is added for texture (if you don’t have urad dal, a handful of cashews makes a delicious alternative), and it’s finished with a grating of fresh coconut. This fragrant, spicy and flavoursome side dish also works brilliantly with the earthy flavour of beetroot leaves, and I like to serve it with boiled beetroot, yoghurt, chapatis or/and rice.

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Nostalgia review – Tarkovsky’s yearning cine-poem is deeply mysterious and profound
Published: 2026-07-22 12:00:15 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:14:38

A scholar has an existential crisis while researching the life of a composer in the Russian director’s Italy-set 1983 masterwork

Andrei Tarkovsky’s 1983 film is a mysterious, imagist cine-poem about alienation and belonging, whose title means a yearning not simply for a lost time or lost place but for something, anything, else – with a profound anguished sense that the here-and-now of existence is unsatisfactory.

The movie takes something from the poetry of the director’s father Arseny Tarkovsky, which is quoted in the film. A distinguished Russian scholar is in Italy to research the life of the (fictional) Russian composer Pavel Sosnovsky who is supposed to have travelled there before being overwhelmed by homesick longing and returning to the motherland. His beautiful, flirtatious interpreter is reading Tarkovsky’s poetry in an Italian translation, and the Russian coldly tells her to throw the book away: “Poetry is untranslatable, like the whole of art.” Does he really mean that? This movie is itself, in a way, translated; it is set in Italy and co-written by Tarkovsky with the veteran Italian screenwriter Tonino Guerra, who worked with Fellini and Antonioni. (Like Jean-Claude Carrière, Guerra, who died in 2012, was a prolific collaborator in European cinema.)

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Do you suffer from organ failure? Here’s why you should give this mightiest of instruments a hearing
Published: 2026-07-22 11:58:05 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:14:38

A Sunday morning Prom showcases the magnificent RAH instrument, but the organ’s not just for Bach – check out pioneering musicians from Jonny Greenwood to Kali Malone. Plus, Igor Levit is cancelled – and at the top of the German charts

It has 9,999 pipes, it’s 155 years old and 21m high. You can see it, but not always hear it, at every single London prom. I’m talking of course about the Willis organ in the Royal Albert Hall, which takes centre stage this weekend on Sunday morning’s recital by French organist Olivier Latry.

With his mostly Bach programme, Latry’s recital represents the core of the organ’s repertoire, music that has been heard in cathedrals and on concert hall organs for centuries. It will be magnificent in the building-shaking flesh on Sunday morning, but my assurances might not be enough to convince non-organ fans that they should forgo a lazy Sunday morning and head to South Kensington.

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‘A unique talent’: Phil Foden signs new four-year Manchester City contract
Published: 2026-07-22 12:00:14 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:14:38
  • 26-year-old looking forward to working with Maresca

  • ‘To stay this long at the club is a dream really,’ he says

Phil Foden has signed a new four-year contract with Manchester City, saying he is looking forward to “trying to win more” at his boyhood club.

The fresh deal, which has an additional 12-month option, ties the 26-year-old to the club until 2030. Foden is relishing working again with Enzo Maresca. The new City manager was Pep Guardiola’s assistant during the 2022-23 treble-winning season.

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Three speeches on a single day signaled a dying American democracy | Robert Shpiner
Published: 2026-07-22 12:00:15 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:14:37

Stephen Miller warned of a leftwing ‘cancer’ threatening civilization. As a critical care doctor, I have a response to his diagnosis

The presumption that US elections are legitimate died last week in Washington. It was 237 years old. It did not die of one wound. It died of three, inflicted in a single day, in daylight, on the record. And the country, running to the loudest of them, never examined the one most likely to kill.

In critical care we distinguish the mechanism of death from its cause. The mechanism was a Thursday. The cause was chronic, progressive and untreated.

Robert B Shpiner is a clinical professor of medicine in pulmonary and critical care at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA

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Мост между SAST и фаззингом: как из сработки SAST получить подтверждённую уязвимость
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:12:30 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:13:38

Инструменты статического анализа (SAST) лишь подсвечивают вероятные уязвимости, генерируя гипотезы. Динамическое тестирование (DAST) и фаззинг, напротив, выявляют реальные сбои на работающем приложении и фиксируют вектор атаки, но не указывают на конкретную строку в исходниках. Традиционно эти два подхода существуют в изоляции, образуя методологический разрыв, преодолеть который способен только AppSec-эксперт путем кропотливого ручного триажа.

В этой статье мы расскажем про то, как в INFERA AI.SafeCode уменьшаем поток ложных срабатываний в целом, зачем для этого формируем единый реестр знаний о проекте, и как строим мост от SAST к автоматически подтверждаемой уязвимости.

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NHS trust investigated for corporate manslaughter after Nottingham attacks
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:32:12 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:13:38

Trust that treated Valdo Calocane, who killed three people in 2023, sectioned him four times between 2020 and 2022

The NHS trust that treated the triple killer Valdo Calocane in the years before the Nottingham attacks is being investigated by police for corporate manslaughter.

Calocane, who has paranoid schizophrenia, was sentenced to an indefinite hospital order after he fatally stabbed the 19-year-old students Barnaby Webber and Grace O’Malley Kumar, and the 65-year-old caretaker Ian Coates, on 13 June 2023.

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Локус контроля: 4 убеждения, которые тихо хоронят ваши амбиции
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Published: 2026-07-22 12:08:50 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:10:38

Талант даётся при рождении. Без связей ничего не выйдет. Нужна удача. Без денег не начать. Знакомо? Это четыре мифа, в которые я верил годами — и потерял из-за них кучу времени.

Потом я заметил закономерность: убеждения людей коррелируют с их достижениями. А ещё позже узнал, что почти дословно переоткрыл теорию локуса контроля, сформулированную психологом Джулианом Роттером ещё в 1954 году.

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Tenisha Warner, widow of Malcolm-Jamal Warner, opens up about being a single mom
Published: 2026-07-23 12:45:00 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:10:37
Tenisha Warner sat down for an exclusive interview with "CBS Mornings" before a lawsuit over her late husband's estate became public, and discussed her grief and raising her daughter alone.
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How to Support Someone Without Giving Advice
Published: 2026-07-22 12:00:03 | Created: 2026-07-22 12:09:38
—Photo-Illustration by TIME (Source Image: Liquid Sky Studio/Getty Images)

When someone you care about is going through a hard time, you'd probably do anything to help them feel better. Yet one of the easiest traps to fall into is offering advice too soon.

"We'll often jump into, 'How can I fix this? How can I say the right thing?'" says Alli Spotts-De Lazzer, a therapist in Chattanooga, Tenn. “But advice usually lands better after someone feels understood." Otherwise, rushing to offer solutions can leave people feeling dismissed instead of supported. Experts say the best way to show up is to help people feel heard first and offer guidance later, if they want it.

Here's exactly how to support someone you love—without leading with advice.

Ask yourself who you’re really trying to soothe

Before you say anything, run a quick gut check: "Is what I'm about to say going to help me, or help them?" You might be surprised by your answer. "Giving advice usually calms you down more than it helps them," says Cheryl Groskopf, a marriage and family therapist and professional clinical counselor in Los Angeles. Watching someone you love struggle creates uncertainty in you, too—which is exactly why the urge to jump in and fix things can be so hard to resist.

The reality is, you probably can't solve what they're facing. You can't tell them whether they'll get the job, whether the relationship will work out, or how a difficult decision will unfold. Instead of trying to erase that uncertainty, help them tolerate it. Groskopf suggests offering comfort like this: "You might not need to have all the answers right now." "Supporting someone means helping them discover that they can survive not knowing yet,” she says.

Help them feel less alone

Before advice can land, people need to feel like you actually get them. Spotts-De Lazzer likens it to sitting quietly beside someone on a bench instead of trying to solve their problem. The most helpful responses are often short—and don't start with "I": "That sounds hard." "That's a lot." "That sucks." Said sincerely, they let someone know they don't have to carry what they're feeling alone.

You don't need to fix their problem—you just need to stay with them long enough for them to feel understood. One line Spotts-De Lazzer especially likes: "Can I sit with you in this for a minute, just so you're not alone?"

Let them stay the expert on their own life

The goal isn't to know more than the person in front of you—it's to make it clear that you see them. That starts with empathy, but many of us aren't sure what that actually sounds like. Try "It makes sense you feel that way" or "I can understand why you'd feel that way," suggests Mary McLaughlin, a licensed clinical social worker in Vienna, Va. Then get curious and let them lead: "Position yourself so that they're the expert," she says. "Let them be the expert on what they're sharing."

The fastest way to make someone feel misunderstood is to act like you know their situation better than they do. McLaughlin recalls a client whose wife had Alzheimer's disease; what stung most, he told her, was people who rushed to share what some expert or relative had done. "It's just so deflating," she says. "Like, don't you think I've already thought of these things?" When you do want to nudge someone toward a decision, ask instead of instruct: "What comes to mind when you think about doing this?" That's powerful because, as McLaughlin puts it, "they hear their own voice in the answer."

Don't guess what they need

Not everyone wants the same kind of support. Instead of assuming you know what would help, ask. "Start a conversation with, 'I'm so here for you. What do you need?'" says Melissa Gluck, a psychologist in New York. "Do you want me to be in fix-it mode? Do you want me to just sit and listen?" It takes only a few seconds to ask, and it can spare you one of the most common missteps: solving a problem the other person never asked you to.

Some people won't know what they need, and that's fine—you can read their cues as you go. But many people know exactly what they're after, whether it's reassurance or simply the sense that they're not overreacting. "I know we're all so afraid to ask," Gluck says, "but we don't have to be."

Slow everything down

Sometimes the most supportive thing you can do is...nothing. At least for a second. "That one beat—just taking a second—will often give that person much more safety and regulation than any amount of words," Groskopf says. Rushing in with "Have you tried...?" can push someone toward solutions before they've had a chance to process what they're feeling.

There's a physiological reason a calm presence helps: "Nervous systems sync with other nervous systems—that's what co-regulation is," Groskopf says. That’s also why big, alarmed reactions can backfire. Reacting with "Oh my God, that's such a big deal" can unintentionally make someone feel like their emotions are something to fear. Steadiness sends the opposite message: "Your emotions make sense, and they're survivable."

Trade fixes for curiosity

If you're tempted to tell someone what you think they should do, ask a question instead. Gluck likes this one: "It sounds like part of you already knows what you'd do—what's stopping you?" Instead of handing someone an answer, it invites them to think through what's really holding them back.

It also does something practical: It gets people unstuck. "Usually when you're venting, you're stuck in your head," she says. A good question can help someone move forward, without you having to solve the problem for them.

Stay in your lane

Before you jump in to solve someone else's problem, McLaughlin suggests pausing and asking yourself one blunt question: "Whose problem is this?" Even with the best intentions, stepping in can make someone feel like you don't trust them to figure things out. "When you're solving, you're basically saying, 'I don't really believe you can handle this, so I'm going to handle it for you,'" she says.

Instead, remind them of what they're capable of. Try saying, "I've seen you work through hard things before." Sometimes, McLaughlin says, "you have to have confidence in someone until they can find it in themselves."

Skip the silver lining

When someone is hurting, it's natural to reach for reassurance. But if you offer it too soon, it can land as dismissive instead of comforting. "Cheer up" and "It's going to be fine" can fall flat because, as Spotts-De Lazzer points out, you don't have a crystal ball. Comparisons like "Others have it worse" tend to miss the mark too, minimizing a person's experience instead of acknowledging it. "The person owns their experience in that moment," she says. "It's their subjective truth, their emotional truth."

That doesn't mean you can't offer hope—it's just a matter of timing. Acknowledge the pain first, then offer reassurance: "I know it'll pass. But right now it sucks, and I'm here." People are much more likely to believe your encouragement after they feel like you've understood what they're going through.

Show up with your hands, not just your words

Support isn't just something you say—it can also be something you do. Drop off dinner, send a gift card, or offer to grab their kid from school, especially when someone's slogging through a hard stretch. Small, practical gestures can take one thing off a person's plate at a time when even everyday tasks feel overwhelming. Better yet, don't wait to be asked. "Most of us don't want to ask for that," Gluck says, "so when you don't have to, it means a lot."

And if you're genuinely unsure what would help, don't let that stop you from reaching out. "I'd rather get it wrong, but I want to do something," Spotts-De Lazzer says. After all, the goal isn't to say the perfect thing or respond perfectly every time. As she puts it, "It's not about getting anything right. It's about demonstrating care."

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