
Lizzie Post still remembers the time she walked into a party and an acquaintance greeted her with exciting news: “You had a baby!”
“Nope,” Post said.
“You got engaged!”
Nope again.
“You got married!”
“I’m going to the bar,” Post replied.
Post, co-president of the Emily Post Institute and Emily Post’s great-great-granddaughter, knew the woman meant well. She had apparently heard that something momentous had happened—it hadn’t—and cycled through three incorrect milestones trying to identify it. Fortunately, she eventually stopped guessing: a relief for everyone involved.
Life is full of faux pas, but even when you’re the one making it, you can dig your way out of social quicksand most of the time. Here’s what psychologists and etiquette experts suggest saying, plus when to stop talking.
Your immediate reaction after saying something you regret might be to turn fire-truck red. Then comes the urge to reach for the very thing that got you into trouble in the first place: more words. People often try to explain, defend, or excuse their misfired remark, says Karina Schumann, a social psychologist and associate professor at the University of Pittsburgh who studies apologies and conflict resolution. The instinct is self-protective: They’re frantically trying to repair their image in the other person’s eyes.
“What actual repair looks like is to shift the attention to the other person,” Schumann says. “Put aside this very strong need that you have to repair your self-image, and instead think: ‘If I were on the receiving end of this, what would I need to hear?’”
Pause, acknowledge the impact of what you said, and take responsibility. She suggests phrasing it like this: “I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have assumed.” Or: “I can see that my joke was insensitive. I apologize.”
Then take a breath. More words will still be available later, should the situation require them.
A minor blunder and a painful faux pas shouldn’t trigger matching productions of remorse. Forget an acquaintance’s name? A quick “I’m sorry—please remind me” may be enough. Ask when someone is due when she isn’t pregnant, or make a joke that accidentally lands on a painful subject? That calls for a direct acknowledgment of the harm, without trying to laugh it off, and perhaps a longer conversation if the other person wants one.
The person responsible isn’t always the best judge of what it will take to repair the situation. Schumann points to a phenomenon researchers call the “magnitude gap”: People who cause harm tend to view it as less severe and less damaging to the relationship than the people on the receiving end do. The offender may think, I apologized; this should be over. The other person may still be wondering how the offender could fail to understand how much it hurt.
An apology doesn’t require an origin story, a director’s commentary, or a guided tour of everything happening inside the offender’s head.
“Blame is like a hot potato,” says Jennifer Thomas, a psychologist and co-author of The 5 Apology Languages: The Secret to Healthy Relationships. Defensive responses—including “I was only joking,” “I didn’t mean it that way,” and “Why did you take it so personally?”—toss it back to the injured person. They minimize the harm, gloss over the offender’s intentions, or suggest the other person is simply too sensitive.
An explanation can sometimes make what happened easier to understand, Schumann says, but it has to provide context without weakening responsibility. Lead with: “I shouldn’t have done that. There’s no excuse for it.” Then ask whether an explanation would be helpful.
A digital faux pas calls for the same restraint. If you send a text to the wrong person with information you wouldn’t have divulged to them otherwise, Post suggests writing: “I’m so sorry. Clearly that text wasn’t meant for you—and I probably shouldn’t have been sending it anyway.” Then leave it at that.
For a minor, accidental blunder—maybe you stuck your toe in your mouth instead of your whole foot—one sincere apology is generally enough. “The more you apologize, the more it’s about you,” Post says. That means no apology cookies, no anguished message the following morning, and no campaign to extract an official declaration that everything is fine.
Serious harm is different. Schumann cautions against treating every apology as a “one-shot thing,” as though finding the perfect words should settle the matter. The other person may need a longer conversation, an effort to make amends, or simply more time.
“The timing of any forgiveness should stay wholly in the hands of the person who was hurt,” Thomas says. An apology offers them a choice, not a deadline.
What if you don’t realize you made a faux pas until hours or days later? It’s usually better to address it than hope the other person forgot, therapist Elika Dadsetan-Foley says. Try: “I’ve been thinking about what I said yesterday. I realize it may have been insulting, and I’m sorry I didn’t recognize that in the moment.”
The next time you run into the neighbor you assumed was sick but who had merely gone makeup-free, or the acquaintance who received a text that was definitely not meant for them, offer a friendly greeting. Avoiding the person can make one uncomfortable exchange feel like a permanent rupture; bringing it up again can give a dying embarrassment fresh oxygen.
Keep the story to yourself, rather than retelling it as evidence of what a hopeless fool you are. “You may think that’s you throwing yourself under the bus, but you’re dragging the other person with you,” Post says. Your self-deprecation may get a laugh, but it also makes the other person’s embarrassment public.
Fortunately, most faux pas don’t require a lifelong of self-flagellation. If you’ve apologized sincerely and the other person seems ready to move on, follow their lead. “We all get stuff wrong from time to time,” Post says. Sometimes recovering gracefully means making amends. Other times, it means saying sorry—and letting everyone get on with the party.

The Trump Administration ordered 30 universities to audit their foreign research partnerships or risk losing funding.
The order, issued Monday by the Defense Department, instructs universities to review their ties to 130 foreign institutions, mainly Chinese, that “engage in activities that increase the likelihood of U.S. government-funded research and development efforts being misappropriated.” Schools that fail to terminate any “problematic” partnerships within two weeks may lose their eligibility for future federal research funding.
The order is intended to protect taxpayer-funded research from “unauthorized technology transfer, intellectual property theft and adversarial exploitation,” the Pentagon said in the announcement.
“The Department of War has zero tolerance for academic partnerships that compromise our national security,” Emil Michael, undersecretary of war for research and engineering, said.
The announcement did not identify which schools had received the order or how they were selected, but a U.S. official told the Associated Press on Tuesday that they include Harvard University, the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and Johns Hopkins University.
The order is the latest effort to clamp down on alleged Chinese influence in the U.S., including in higher education. The Trump Administration and several lawmakers from both parties have argued that China exploits U.S.-funded research to obtain sensitive technology and intellectual property.
U.S. concerns about Chinese intellectual property theft and espionage have grown in recent years. Last year, a federal jury convicted former Corning scientist Ji Wang of stealing files containing trade secrets from a Pentagon-funded project. Prosecutors said he planned to use the technology in a Chinese business backed by government entities. In May, Eileen Wang, the mayor of Arcadia, Calif., resigned after admitting to acting as an unregistered Chinese government agent before taking office.
But some observers have warned that the crackdown unfairly politicizes academic collaboration, stigmatizes Chinese academics, and could weaken American scientific competitiveness.
The Chinese embassy in Washington said in a statement to news outlets that it opposed “the overstretching of the concept of national security and the politicisation or instrumentalisation of normal scientific, educational and academic exchanges.”
“The U.S. side should abandon the Cold War mentality and foster an open, fair and non-discriminatory environment for educational, scientific and people-to-people exchanges between China and the United States,” it added.
Here’s what to know about the raft of policies aimed at curbing institutional ties to China.
The foreign institutions the U.S. seeks to blacklist were identified by the Pentagon last month. Eighty-eight of the 130 institutions are in mainland China, while the remaining institutions are in Russia and Iran. The list has been updated annually since an earlier version was first released in 2023. It was established under Section 1286 of the 2019 National Defense Authorization Act, which was enacted during President Donald Trump’s first term.
While some Chinese universities on the list have more explicit ties to the military, others are prominent civilian institutions with extensive international research partnerships. These include Fudan University and Shanghai Jiao Tong University. The updated list also added a number of other Chinese institutions with varying links to China’s defense and security establishment, including Shandong University, Hangzhou Dianzi University, Shenyang Aerospace University, and the University of International Relations.
People familiar with Chinese academic institutions previously told TIME that Chinese Communist Party structures are embedded throughout the country’s universities, making institutional links to the government common, even though individual students or researchers may not be engaged in political or military work.
The Pentagon also instructed universities to audit collaborations with organizations associated with “rebranded Confucius Institutes.” Confucius Institutes are non-profit language and cultural programs funded by the Chinese government and hosted in universities around the world. Launched in 2004, there were at one time more than 100 Confucius Institutes operating on U.S. college campuses. But most U.S. programs closed after 2019 amid congressional scrutiny and federal funding restrictions. By late 2023, there were fewer than five active Confucius Institutes in the U.S.
Many universities, however, retained partnerships with their former Chinese partner institutions or established successor language and cultural programs under different names. Critics characterized some of these arrangements, particularly those that continued to receive Chinese funding or instructors, as “rebranded Confucius Institutes.” Of 74 former Confucius Institute hosts surveyed by the Government Accountability Office in 2023, 43 said they maintained ties to their former Chinese partner institutions. Nine reported receiving continued funding or other support for programming from those institutions, although eight of the nine said the partnerships predated their Confucius Institutes.
The Trump Administration has pursued a slate of policies that build on Trump’s first-term “China Initiative.” These have included tighter scrutiny of universities’ foreign funding and research partnerships and restrictions on collaborations with blacklisted Chinese institutions. The Trump Administration has also increased vetting of Chinese student visa applicants, threatened visa revocations for some students, and renewed investigations of China-linked researchers.
Since last year, the Pentagon has prohibited funding fundamental research projects conducted in collaboration with a listed foreign institution or its employees. The policy was expanded in March to bar the use of equipment from listed entities in certain Pentagon-funded projects.
Meanwhile, China has sought to bring in more foreign talent and investment, including by seeking to attract more international students to its universities and exchange programs, and by introducing a K visa for young foreign STEM professionals.
Dozens of Chinese tenure-track scholars have left U.S. universities for China over the past year.
Days before the latest announcement, the Republican-led House Select Committee on the Chinese Communist Party and the House Education and Workforce Committee released a report accusing Harvard of failing to adequately screen its relationships with Chinese institutions linked to the People’s Liberation Army and China’s defense industry. The investigation said it identified more than 140 publications co-authored by Harvard-affiliated researchers and scholars at certain Chinese defense-linked civilian universities.
Harvard disputed the report’s “mischaracterizations,” and said it follows federal national security standards.
The changes also come as the U.S. seeks to maintain its lead over China in the global AI race. A 2025 report warned that major AI data centers in the U.S. were vulnerable to Chinese espionage, sabotage, and intellectual property theft.
In July, the Administration recommended redirecting potentially billions of dollars of federal research funding from universities toward individual scientists and AI-focused projects as part of an effort to counter Chinese scientific advances.
Last week, Reuters also reported that the Administration was preparing to tell 35 partner countries that participation in Pax Silica—a U.S.-led initiative to strengthen supply chains for semiconductors, critical minerals, and AI infrastructure—was conditioned on their refusal to join China’s rival AI framework. The reported demand appeared in an internal draft and has not been formally issued.
New findings further call into question scientific judgment of current health leaders in the Trump administration
A French researcher whose work was praised by Donald Trump and Dr Mehmet Oz during the Covid-19 pandemic published hundreds of papers with “substantial” ethical and legal concerns, according to a new analysis.
An international team of scientists found concerns in 853 articles published by the Institut Hospitalo-Universitaire Méditerranée Infection, or the IHU, hundreds more than previously flagged by past investigations into work at the large research hospital. Of those, institute founder Didier Raoult was listed as co-author on 758 of them, according to one of the researchers behind the new analysis.
Continue reading...Move by Years, which provides personalised meals in subscription-based service, follows recipe change
A dog food brand has recalled all of its fresh meals after reports that a recipe change may have caused some animals to develop an eye condition that, if left untreated, can lead to sight loss.
The brand Years said owners should stop feeding its fresh meals to their dogs “immediately” and also told them not to feed the meals to any other animal, or to donate or sell them.
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В этом месяце Alibaba выпустила две модели, и та, о которой все писали, оказалась не той, что мы ждали. Qwen3.8-Max — это API с 2,4 триллионами параметров, и пару недель назад я с большим энтузиазмом написал о ней обзор. Но релиз, которого я действительно ждал, вышел 14 августа: Qwen3.8-27B, Apache 2.0, веса на Hugging Face, модель достаточно компактна, чтобы работать на ноутбуке.
Я должен кое в чем признаться. Я не провел полный тест этой модели. Я попробовал, на своем MacBook Air M4 получал около восьми токенов в секунду и потерял терпение где-то на втором запросе. По большей части этот пост посвящен именно моей неудаче, потому что я подозреваю, что у многих из вас вечер сложится так же, как у меня.
Что представляет собой Qwen3.8-27B на самом деле
27,78 миллиарда параметров, плотная модель, включающая в себя визуальный энкодер, о котором никто не объявлял заранее. Принимает на вход текст, изображения и видео. Собственный контекст — 262 144 токена, с помощью YaRN можно увеличить его примерно до миллиона, если запускать модель на сервере.
Архитектура — это по-настоящему интересная часть, и это не обычный трансформер. На протяжении 64 слоёв Qwen чередует 48 слоёв Gated DeltaNet (линейное внимание) с 16 полными слоями Gated Attention в соотношении 3:1. Только эти 16 слоёв с полным вниманием имеют KV-кэш. Таким образом, на каждый токен приходится около 64 КБ, что составляет примерно четверть от объёма памяти, необходимого для обычной 64-слойной модели с плотным кодированием.
Если вы запомните только одно число из этого поста, пусть это будет именно оно. Всё, что касается того, поместится ли эта модель на вашем компьютере, зависит от объёма KV-кэша.
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Canva научилась превращать текстовый запрос и готовый HTML в редактируемый сайт. Спустя месяц после релиза уже видно, где это экономит часы, а где работа быстро возвращается к ручной сборке.
15 июля Canva выпустила Code 2.0. Анонс успел отлежаться, первые восторги немного выветрились, а независимые авторы добрались до кнопок, которые обычно остаются за краем презентации.
Главное новшество звучит скромнее привычного обещания собрать сайт одной фразой. Получившийся проект теперь можно редактировать как обычный дизайн Canva: менять текст, цвета, изображения, обсуждать правки с командой и публиковать всё из одного окна. Ещё сервис принимает готовый HTML и превращает его в редактируемый макет.
Для небольшого бизнеса это интереснее очередной гонки генераторов. Сайт редко заканчивается на первой красивой картинке. Телефон меняется, акция заканчивается, юрист просит переписать половину подвала, а владелец внезапно вспоминает про форму заявки. Вот здесь и начинается настоящая жизнь страницы.
Читать далееRightwing populist’s inconsistent positions on Europe and Russia suggest he is testing how far he can push partners and electorate
One evening nine years ago in the Bulgarian town of Balgari, a Brazilian tourist approached the casually dressed, middle-aged man surrounded by bodyguards, bystanders and photographers. “Why are you important?” she asked. “I’m not so important,” he replied. She repeated the question and he admitted: “I’m the president.”
Now, in 2026, the rightwing populist Rumen Radev is no longer the president, but the prime minister – the more powerful of the two positions – after his Progressive Bulgaria party secured an overwhelming majority in April’s election. While many in Europe breathed a sigh of relief that month at the demise of Viktor Orbán in Hungary, others wondered if Radev would become the EU’s next disruptor-in-chief.
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Cлучилось то, что я обычно советую не делать: я не выбрал из существующих 14 форматов, а сделал 15-й.
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The choreographer combines a homophobic killing from 2012 with a remembrance for his father in an often rapturous show about healing
In 2019 at the Edinburgh international festival, the Swiss director Milo Rau staged an intense theatrical investigation, La Reprise: Histoire(s) du Theatre (I), recreating a homophobic killing in Belgium. The murder of Ihsane Jarfi, seven years earlier, had made headlines and the news disturbed choreographer Sidi Larbi Cherkaoui who was just a little older, also gay and had a Belgian mother and Moroccan father like Jarfi.
Cherkaoui now arrives at the same festival with his own act of remembrance, every bit as engrossing as Rau’s, yet more expansive. It pays tribute, too, to the choreographer’s father who died 30 years ago and whose past is interwoven with Jarfi’s death. If that raises any qualms, Cherkaoui’s larger point is about the interconnectedness of all lives and his characters morph into each other. He takes his cue from the victim’s first name, which essentially means “benevolence”, and counters the production’s disturbing flashes of violence with a floating lightness, whether in breakdance or traditional forms, and by presenting ideals of harmonious joy and kindness.
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Я автор aiochlite — асинхронного клиента ClickHouse на aiohttp. Раньше мой декодер RowBinary читал каждое числовое поле отдельно. Если брать 200 тысяч строк с десятью числовыми колонками, получалось два миллиона таких чтений, хотя все данные уже были в памяти.
Сначала я думал использовать Cython, C или Rust. Но потом решил попробовать оптимизировать сам процесс: объединить соседние поля с фиксированной длиной в один struct, а полностью фиксированные строки разбирать с помощью Struct.iter_unpack. На числовых данных это ускорило работу примерно в 8.3 раза.
Со смешанной схемой данных получилось интереснее: простая склейка почти не помогла. Главной проблемой осталась проверка типов внутри основного цикла. В итоге я начал генерировать и компилировать Python-функцию под конкретную схему ответа — это дало ускорение еще примерно в 1.7 раза.
В статье я подробно рассказываю, как это работает, как я проводил замеры, сколько времени занимает генерация кода и в каких случаях такие оптимизации уже не нужны. Весь код и скрипты для тестов можно найти в репозитории.
Читать далееMohamed Salah’s arrival made a splash, but the Turkish Super Lig will probably become the latest league to end up as a bailout fund for Europe’s powerhouses
Mohamed Salah plays in Turkey now. So do Romelu Lukaku and Leandro Trossard and Leroy Sané and Nathan Aké. Mason Greenwood and N’Golo Kanté and Dusan Vlahovic, too.
Bruno Fernandes and Gabriel Martinelli may yet follow them there, depending on negotiations and moods and whatever else compels a footballer to leave one club for another.
Continue reading...Bice, Blakey, Heeney, Jordon and Warner hit by suspensions
None of the five players have been arrested or charged
Five Sydney Swans players have said they are “deeply sorry” after they were suspended for the rest of the AFL season.
The club stood down players Riley Bice, Nick Blakey, Isaac Heeney, James Jordon and Chad Warner on Wednesday morning. None of the men have been arrested or charged, but police are investigating an alleged sexual assault at the Pullman Hotel in Melbourne.
Continue reading...A summer of five heatwaves and barely a drop of rain have left groundstaff wrung out as they work all hours to keep packed schedule going
On Thursday, the County Championship resumes for its final six-week run, charging towards 27 September with barely a pause for breath. It’s tight at the top of Division One, with only 11 points between first placed Nottinghamshire and sixth placed Essex, while Kent and Northants prepare to elbow it out for the second Division Two promotion place alongside almost-inked-in Durham.
The players, on the treadmill since 3 April, and switching between competitions, are run ragged. But no one is as wrung out as the groundstaff, dealing with a summer of fiery extremes, five heatwaves, excruciating temperatures and barely a drop of rain across most of England. In the words of the Met Office scientist Mike Kendon, “the climate of the 20th century has now gone” but the cricket season is expecting to roll on by as if nothing is happening. The Spin asked three head groundsmen how they are coping.
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Continue reading...Ukrainian anti-corruption agencies said they uncovered group responsible for money laundering $3.35m but did not name individuals involved
The rise in Germany’s borrowing costs to a 15-year high reflects the increased security challenges facing the country following Russia’s invasion of Ukraine and the need to spend much more defence, the Finance Ministry said on Wednesday.
German 10- and 30-year borrowing costs hit a fresh 15-year high in Wednesday’s session. Bond yields of other major Western economies including the US and Japan have also climbed to multi-decade highs this week due to ballooning government debt and geopolitics, increasing borrowing costs for companies and households and complicating policy.
“I am grateful to the MPs for supporting Andrii Sybiha for the position of Minister of Foreign Affairs of Ukraine and Yevhenii Khmara for the position of Minister of Defence of Ukraine.
The tasks for both ministers are absolutely clear: Ukraine needs more strength. And it will have it. Glory to Ukraine!”
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ДИСКЛЕЙМЕР: У меня нет готового лайфхака. Я тащу эту структуру из собственной головы прямо сейчас, в режиме реального времени. Эта статья про одни из граблей, которые я смогла по-своему задетектить. О том, как я искала ответ, или, точнее, вопрос. Я восстанавливаю последовательность своих мыслей из логов двухмесячной давности, показываю, как разрозненное раздражение собиралось вокруг одной оси. Если Вам близко такое размышление – буду рада Вашим мыслям по прочтению
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В распределённой СУБД YDB (читается вай‑ди‑би) векторный поиск по kmeans‑tree индексу раскрывался оптимизатором в цепочку из нескольких стадий StreamLookup. Это работало, но порождало большие планы запросов и существенно затрудняло оптимизации самого поиска. Я заменил эту цепочку одним специализированным read‑актором TKqpVectorSearchActor, который берёт всю логику обхода индекса под свой контроль, а не размазывает её по независимым стадиям.

Всё началось с обычного письма от хостинга: VPS слишком долго держит CPU выше 70%. Я открыл Gitea посмотреть, что происходит, а там уже был чужой репозиторий.
По логам восстановил атаку почти по секундам: регистрация, repository, diffpatch, Git hook, RCE. От первого запроса до proof прошло около 11 секунд.
А дальше обнаружился loader крипто-майнера. Покажу, как это произошло и что пришлось переделать на сервере.
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Дискуссия о том, заменит ли искусственный интеллект программистов, получает всё новые поводы для обсуждения. Так, в мае 2026 года компания Anthropic сообщила, что уже более 80% кода, вливаемого в её кодовую базу, написано Claude.
На первый взгляд вывод кажется очевидным: раз ИИ способен писать код, тестировать и находить ошибки, значит, привычные IT-процессы и профессии скоро уйдут в прошлое.
Однако современные исследования показывают другую картину. Классический цикл разработки ПО (SDLC) никуда не исчезнет, но кардинально изменится распределение работы: всё больше задач внутри каждого этапа будут брать на себя AI-агенты.
В этой статье разберём, какие части разработки уже сегодня передаются искусственному интеллекту и как под его влиянием трансформируются процессы и роли в IT.
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Когда обычно вспоминают про юридическую защиту программы? Правильно, после релиза. Но когда дело доходит до гранта или налоговой, выясняется: без чистых прав вы не получите ни льгот, ни денег инвестора, а любой бывший сотрудник может оспорить владение кодом через суд.
В этой статье разобрала, как выстроить юридическую защиту программного обеспечения так, чтобы в будущем не пришлось срочно исправлять ошибки.
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В процессе прохождения курса от MIT про нейросети наткнулась на интересную тему, представленную одним из лекторов. Он задался вопросом: «А может ли нейросеть выучить функцию Вейерштрасса (непрерывная функция на вещественной прямой, не имеющая производной ни в одной точке)?». Я решила проверить это на практике. Мною было принято решение не останавливаться на фракталах, а поискать другие функции, обладающие интересными для математика свойствами: лестница Кантора, функция Римана (Томаэ) и др. В данной статье представлена только функция Вейерштрасса.
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Точкой старта работы над проектом можно считать день, когда Дедушка Мороз положил мне под ёлку набор “Робот-автомобиль для Raspberry Pi 4B” от Keyestudio.
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Привет, Хаброжители! На протяжении всей своей истории человечество неустанно искало способы решать задачи, прикладывая как можно меньше усилий. Люди всегда стремились создавать инструменты и автоматизировать повторяющиеся действия, чтобы выживать и экономить силы. Здесь некоторые могут поспорить, заявив, что человек умен, ищет возможности совершенствования, умеет творчески решать задачи и создавать произведения искусства в области литературы, музыки и т.п. Но второе обновленное издание «Грокаем алгоритмы искусственного интеллекта» не ставит целью обсуждение философской сути бытия. Оно дает обзор методов искусственного интеллекта, которые можно применять для решения прикладных задач.
Читать далееThere’s an astonishing naturalism about the two leads, navigating the ups and downs of adolescence, bodily changes and learning to use tampons
Practically any woman who had a best female friend in early adolescence will be able to relate to this fragile, thoughtful drama about two American children, Violet (Emajean Bullock) and Stella (Anastasia Veronica Lee), living through the ages of nine to 13, a time as packed with incident as it is simultaneously uneventful and reassuringly dull. Unlike Richard Linklater’s justly acclaimed Boyhood, which had the resources to film for over a decade and thus observe its central character grow up, this was clearly made over a more compact schedule. Violet and Stella age much more subtly here, gradually growing breasts and getting a little bit taller, but those tiny incremental changes mean so much to them. Just as in real life with girls this age, a little bit of makeup, different clothes and some flat-ironing on the hair can alter a kid’s whole presentation.
As the film starts, the two are nine-year-old besties, spending their summers together in New England where they go to camp, frolic in the surf (the title refers to a game they play with waves) and try to sleep over at each other’s houses. Unfortunately, Stella can’t yet cope with sleeping through the night at someone else’s place, and every time they try she must be collected by her parents after waking up frightened in the night. But it’s still something the girls yearn for. They even wish for it when they trap morning moths in jars, hoping fairies will grant them their hearts’ desires.
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